i have been a slacker. over the holidays, the baby and I had the flu. so i felt like dirt for two weeks. in the midst of being sick, we went out of state to meet the maternal side of michael's family. they were a nice bunch, but it was not what i would call a comfortable weekend. michael and i have been bickering about the wedding something fierce! it sucks. he just cant grasp why i dont want a big wedding. i told him if he wanted to see a replay of runaway bride, keep pushing! haha anyway, he finally told me to plan whatever i wanted, as long as i wanted him... (brat) now i feel guilty. damn! but, i really do think, once we do it my way, he will be glad and he will love it. and besides, i want to dump all the money into a really kick ass reception!! PAR-TAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! now, i just have to think of a theme........